Self actualization is the realization or fulfilment of one's talents and potentialities, especially considered as a drive or need present in everyone.
I have always felt that the biggest hindrance in my path towards self actualization is my fear of control and risk-taking. This is something that I've mentioned numerous times in previous posts, Today a close friend confided in me about a situation she was facing. She is someone who I've sort of grown up with, had our fair share of tiffs and seen emotionally vulnerable. We share similar features in that we are both over thinkers and tend to take things a bit too personally.
So listening to her situation, I saw how she reacted in the same way I would have reacted if the same thing happened to me. But because I was an impartial third party, I managed to view how destructive my way of thinking was. Giving her advice really helped open my eyes to how I need to stop taking things personally and feeling entitled to things from other people. It only leads to detrimental feelings between people and self-inflicted emotional wounds.
And to my friend who might happen to see this, this isn't a personal attack on your situation; just a reflection of what I learnt from it.
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